
Soft Rows was never meant to be one thing
Not just for women
Not just for natural hairstyles
Haircare, for us, was always meant to honor every facet of you
I grew watchign the men in my life take carem in quiet ways
my grandfather, meticulous on Saturday evenings, would take Queen Helene's, a hot towel, an afro pick and line, shape, and smooth for church on Sunday morning
I watched my brother walk down the aisle with long locs adorned with gold cuffs
I'd pull up to the barbershop just to kick it with my friends who had weekly standing appointment for fresh lineups
for the men in my life, and for so many others, the pride, the ritual, and visibility was always there
but not always in beauty
conversations about hairstyling
self-expression
texture
maintenance
rarely centered
Soft Rows for him isn't a pivot
it's an extension of what was always true